Intimate Encounter Says It All

Intimate encounter, the simple utterance of the words truly says all that needs to be said. It is a discreet way of saying sex, sex and more sex. It implies a secret rendezvous' or a daring midday meeting. It somehow lets us believe that this will be a safe place to explore sexual acts we don't normally do. It tells us all that we aren't here for conversation, food or the scenery.

• This is going to be a purely carnal encounter!

Intimate encounters can come in a variety of flavors; perhaps a no strings attached (nsa) one night stand or maybe a full blown extramarital affair. It's a search engine phrase used as often as affair married or cheating women. It is a phrase almost interchangeable with discreet encounters and is found in an amazing amount of married personal ads.

The phrase intimate encounter is more often associated with married women for affairs because it's a little classier than saying "I want to get laid." Married men seeking affairs tend to be more blatant and certainly more explicit.

• Cheating wives however are a little more subtle when they seek a taste of forbidden fruit; but they certainly get their point across.

When men see the term intimate encounter or discreet encounter they know it's time for something erotic, they know it's time for sex. We automatically envision a sexually charged and hungry woman, a lover who knows what she wants and is bold and confident enough to go get it. This is the type of woman who will act out her naughtiest fantasies with us. A woman who isn't afraid to be dirty or do for us what our wives won't. This is going to be a sexual experience that's hot and passionate. An encounter that doesn't have to be nurtured or nursed, we are both already here for the same thing. Both of us have gotten to magically get past the awkward figuring out what each other really wants stage, we are already agreed on the reason we are here. There is no wondering about what the other person is thinking or danger of making a fool of yourself or worse yet being wrong.

• Most importantly it implies that this is also going to be a secret.

That what happens here stays here. So next time you two little words Intimate Encounter smile and get ready to add a little life to your life!