My Husband Is Having An Affair, What Do I Do? Recovering From an Affair

First of all if you think that your husband is having an affair you should make some research about this and wait for a while to look for obvious infidelity signs. After you are sure that the affair is real only then you can start working on this problem because you don't want to make the mistake to be wrong about this. If the question "My husband is having an affair, what do I do?" is permanently on your mind you should know that for getting a good answer you have to prepare yourself for some other reactions you may have.

When you ask yourself: "My husband is having an affair, what do I do?" these are 5 reactions that you may experience:

1. Sadness - Your husband is seeing someone else and share a connection with her and that feeling of sadness is very hard to deal with.

2. Guilt - You may feel that you have broken your husband's intimacy and also his trust in you by checking him out and snooping into his personal life and you may feel that you crossed a line of privacy.

3. Neglect - When your husband is having an affair he will become less interested in you and neglect you all the time discussing with you only banal news, such as when to go to the store and what is the grocery list or what the children did, but nothing about you two.

4. Anger - You are angry on your husband because he is putting efforts in building other relationship when he should try to work out you marriage problems instead.

5. Trying to be defensive - You will try to protect yourself from your husband when he will find out that you are going through his "private business" because he pounced on you for doing that.

There are several ways for you to start saving your marriage after an affair like using communication, being transparent, going to couple counseling and more. Not all these methods are suitable for your situation but there is one way to find out the right answer to your initial question: "My husband is having an affair, what do I do?"

This method is an alternative to couple counseling and instead of going to a therapist. The therapist will come to you through a step-by-step system developed by a marriage counseling specialist with over thirty years of specializing in these kind of problems.