8 Fun Ways To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship

How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship

Many people at some point during their relationship end up having to face the issue of infidelity. The purpose of this article is to help you prevent your boyfriend or girlfriend from cheating on you.

A simple concept is to make your partner only want you and nobody else.

Here are 8 powerful and simple things you can do to keep your partner's eyes focused on you and you only.

1. There is a phrase that states 'what you focus on grows, what you think about it expands'. What this basically means is if you become worried that your partner may cheat on you you actually increase the chances they will cheat on you. one of the first and most powerful things you can do to prevent cheating from creeping into your relationship is trust your partner. Have the attitude that cheating and infidelity will not happen in your relationship. This sends the signal to both your partner and the universe that you are confident. Confident people get cheated on much less an insecure people.


2. Always give your partner the space they need. By giving them the space they need, you must remember and realize your partner owes you nothing. They don't owe you love. They don't owe you a second of their time. In fact, your partner owes you nothing. People who don't give their spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend the space they need do so because they have the attitude their partner somehow owes them something time wise. It's like the old saying of setting a butterfly free if it comes back to you it was meant to be. This is closely tied into principle number one. If you have an unshakable confidence in your self and the belief that your girlfriend or boyfriend will do the right thing by you then you will have no concerns about where they go and when they go there and when they get home. let me put it another way - if you don't willingly did if your partner all the space they need they are more likely to take it by cheating. Let your spouse do whatever they want, whenever they want, with whoever they want.


3. Everybody has insecurities at times including your partner. Be sure to pay attention to their insecurities by giving them complements. Say and do things that make them feel wonderful about themselves and they will never turn to somebody else to make them feel wonderful.


4. Shared new and interesting things you learn with your boyfriend or girlfriend. By doing this, you keep them intellectually stimulated.


5. One bad habit many of us get into when we get comfortable with a relationship is we become much more lax about our grooming and appearance. Over time, we can actually start looking really terrible. Keep yourself attractive for your mate, and they won't be so tempted by the attractive person they see in the gym or at work.


6. Build a healthy social life and hobbies outside of your relationship. This ties in deeply with the suggestion about giving your partner space. If you are busy with your own life and hobbies you won't be so concerned about what your partner is doing with their free time.


7. One thing that make relationships, great is when we reach the point where we feel so comfortable with each other that we can totally just be ourselves. We tend to get comfortable routines. An example of this is a husband and wife who, every evening, sit in the living room reading the newspaper or a book. They are comfortable enough that they can be together, doing their own thing without having to actually speak to each other. However, don't get too comfortable. Every once in a while, at least once every two weeks, you want to mix things up by doing something new or exciting, together. Try a new restaurant. Go out to a movie.


8. Laughter in a relationship is very important. In fact, my mom has often said that one of the most important indicators of the compatibility of two people in a relationship is that they'll laugh at the same things. Once a week, rent a comedy from your local video store. Make popcorn and cuddle up with each other, enjoying the movie and laughing together in each other's arms

Follow these eight tips, and I guarantee it almost makes it impossible for their ever to be infidelity in your relationship.