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If your wife cheated on you, but she says she is sorry and wants you back, can you believe her? Can your marriage be saved? How do you get over the affair and start over?
Well first, the question you have to answer is whether or not you really want to save your marriage. If you still love your wife and want to work on your relationship, then your marriage has every chance of survival. All it takes is a commitment to heal the relationship and work through your problems. Of course, that means that your wife has to be willing to work on things as well. You don't have to do all of the forgiving and getting over things - she needs to work on helping you get over her affair as well.
Here are three tips to help you get over the affair:
1. Work on trust again. If you really want to take your wife back after the affair, then you have to be willing to commit to trusting her. You can't be questioning her every move and forcing her to answer to you all of the time. That doesn't mean that you can't question her at all - it just means that you have to take steps to work on trusting her again.
2. Stop punishing her. You have every right to be angry and hurt that your wife had an affair. But if you want your marriage to work, you have to stop making her pay for her mistakes over and over. You have to be willing to move on and not throw the affair in her face every chance that you get. Healthy venting is good - just don't turn every fight into a fight about the affair.
3. Plan time to reconnect again. If your wife cheated on you, it can be tough to feel close to her. If you want to save your marriage, however, you should plan time for just the two of you. It will help you get over hard feelings, and remember that your wife still is the woman you love and wanted to build a life with. You want to tip the balance between the negative feelings you have for her right now, and the positive feelings you will need to be happy again. The more you can do to encourage positive, happier interactions with her, the better you will feel. That doesn't mean that you won't have bad days, but it will definitely help strengthen your feelings and your relationship.
6 comments:
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