Being Intimate With Your Husband After He Cheats

It's hard to get back into bed with your husband after he has cheated on you and pretend that everything is perfectly alright.

For one thing, it isn't alright. And, if you're being completely honest with yourself, you feel as though nothing will ever be alright again.

Then you struggle with the fact that you feel like the world's biggest hypocrite for feeling the way you do. You know that it's important to forgive. You REALLY want to forget. You can't even put into words how much you WANT to forget about the idea of your husband with another woman.

But the real problem is that now you're struggling with every doubt that you've ever had about yourself. They all seem magnified and larger than life. They are swarming around you.

Taunting you.

You don't know how you can possibly be intimate with your husband because you're so certain that you're not good enough.

Now it's time for your reality check.

That idea that is spinning around in your head is pure and utter HOGWASH! You heard me. It's just not true.

He may have been with another woman for a little while during your marriage. But, in the end, he CHOSE YOU!

That stands for something to him and it very well ought to stand for something with you.

Here's what you need to do to tear down that wall, brick by brick, so that you can restore the intimacy in your marriage after your husband has cheated on you.

STOP comparing yourself to her! You are better than that. You deserve better than that from yourself and for yourself. You are your own worst critic and you know it. Your husband loves you and he chose you over her in the end.

That's what matters, right?

So stop magnifying each of your flaws while dismissing all of yours and start seeing yourself as the beautiful, bright, lively, kind, and loving woman your husband sees when he looks at you.

Learn to live in the moment. You've spent so much of your life planning for the future. It's time to learn to bask in the glory of every single minute you have.

When you learn to live this way your husband will have no choice but to fall in love with you (and the way you embrace life) over and over again. More importantly, the intimacy issues you thought you had in your marriage will be a thing of the past in the blink of an eye.