Thursday, April 21, 2011

How to Prevent Cheating - 3 Proven Tips to Affair-Proof Your Marriage and Eliminate Infidelity



Did you know that as many as 60% of all marriages will be subject to infidelity in 2011?

In the past decade the frequency of affairs have literally sky rocketed, and now more than ever it's EXTREMELY important for a couple to figure out how to affair proof a relationship.

If you're afraid that your spouse might be close to cheating on you, then you should listen up; this may be the most important article you ever read.

3 Powerful Tips to Affair-Proof Your Marriage

As you continue to read each word of the tips you'll find below, you're going to slowly be seeing what it takes for a relationship to truly be immune to the temptation of cheating.

By the time you're done with this article it's my hope that you'll be able to sleep comfortably tonight, knowing your spouse loves you and will never stray.

#1. Spend Quality Time Pursuing Shared Interests

This is one of the most underestimated aspects of a relationship that most people forget about after the first year or so of marriage.

Think back to when you and your spouse were first dating... It's my guess that you two had similar interests, and that you spent lots of time pursuing those interests (even if your 'common interest' was just making out anywhere you could find privacy).

So it makes sense, then, that to build a healthy marriage that's immune to cheating, you're going to want to start spending more time together. And not just any time, GOOD time. Time pursuing interests that you both enjoy, whatever they may be.

#2. Experience New Things Together

This is sort of tangent to the first point, but it still needs saying so I'm sayin' it now.

Did you know that probably half of all affairs are caused by one spouse simply being bored of the marriage? If your relationship/life is boring and you can easily see why someone would stray under the current conditions, then that's a good warning sign that your marriage is in danger.

If you need, take some time to sit down with your spouse and figure out what you can do to start generating some common interests, then take measures to act on those interests.

Make life enjoyable!

#3. Celebrate the Happy Times in Your Relationship

What are the celebration-worthy events in your relationship? Each year, what days do you and your wife celebrate as a couple?

For most it'll be the anniversary and Valentine's day and not much else. Now, this is fine, but here's what you need to start doing differently:

It sounds cliche, but you NEED to make these days special. Even if it's nothing more than a nice dinner and some alone time together, find a way to signify to your spouse that you're thinking about them and that you're still hopeful for the years to come.

This is one of the easiest, yet most powerful, ways that you can affair-proof your marriage.



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