My Wife Cheated on Me - What Should I Do Now?

What makes you think your wife has cheated on you, were there signs to show she was not happy or did you find evidence? Not talking when you spoke to her, monosyllable replies. A relationship that involves two people who have strong emotional ties is not easy and it is something you need to work at all the time. Perhaps communication was absent in your relationship, romance gone completely?

You will have to make the decision as to whether you wish to stay in the relationship or move on. Leaving is an easy option, just packing your bags and starting somewhere else. Do you wish to do that? Emotions are running high for you just now so you need to take one day at a time, don't rush into anything. Think about when you first met and were going out together, what did you see in your spouse. Did she have a great personality, smile, good figure?

To get rid of the pent-up emotion go to the gym, go for a run. Do something to clear your head so you can then think about what to do. Men do not find it easy to talk about their feelings but when this has happened then I think you need to vent some emotion as it does help to talk about it. Don't go out and party or go have an affair yourself as that does not solve anything and on top of that you will regret it as you have then involved someone else in your problem.

You need to talk to your spouse and find out what the problem has been to make her cheat on you. Discuss what happened and if you both wish to stay in the relationship or is it not worth it?

I think it is, you took the time to get married at least sit down and discuss it fully.

If you don't then you will not be able to rectify it if it happens again in another relationship.