Monday, April 11, 2011

Healing Infidelity



Healing infidelity is never easy and is impossible to heal from alone. Many of those suffering from their spouse's affair believe they have to do so in private because they are unable to tell anyone about what is happening to them. This is sad because it's almost impossible to do alone. When you are dealing with infidelity on your own with no one to talk to or lean on it's going to take you ten times longer to heal than those who seek out help from others. Just because you feel like you can't talk to anyone, this is false because in today's world there is always the internet.

Healing infidelity should never be done alone. You should learn to seek out those who are going through the same thing you are. When I was going through it, it wasn't 8 hours after I found out about my husband's affair that I was on the internet searching for forums and message boards for those going through the same thing. I was on those boards every day many times a day seeking out advice and help during those dark times in my life. If you don't have anyone to talk to, I urge you to find some way to connect with others going through the same thing you are.

Healing infidelity is almost impossible without God's help. I learned this the hard way because I thought I could do it myself but after 3 years of being in terrible pain and watching my marriage fall apart in front of my eyes I could see that I could not do this on my own anymore and I didn't want to do it on my own anymore. My pain was a constant companion and I didn't want to be in pain any longer.

I urge you, if you are in constant pain and struggling with healing infidelity, then let God help you with your pain. He can take the pain away and work in your heart and change your pain filled heart to one of forgiveness and love again if you let Him. I choose to work through my pain with daily devotions because I just didn't know where to start. Having something to read and work on every day really helped pull me out of my pain and actually filled me with hope again. You can also find hope again for yourself and your marriage.



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