Is He Going to Leave Me? What You MUST Know About Keeping Your Man Faithful AFTER The Affair

Worried about being left behind?

He's cheated on you before. Now the thought of him repeating that dreadful act is constantly on your mind. Are you tired of all this worrying? Do you want some peace of mind? Do you want to rebuild your relationship into a solid one? You still want to have this man in your life, but you want to be sure that it will only be you in his life. And you should have that loyalty. You must first acknowledge that you are deserving of all that and more. So how do you make sure that your man doesn't stray from you again?

Do not watch over him like a hawk

With him having had an affair, it's only natural to watch his every move to find out if there are signs of another woman. But this tactic can severely backfire. This can place a lot of stress on your man and push him to be with another woman even more. Invading his personal space is not the answer. It's a good idea to take note of whether he's staying at work late or staying over at a friend's house. Do pay attention to his actions, but make it discrete.

Show self-confidence

After the affair, did you feel depressed? Did you feel as if you weren't good enough? You shouldn't, you're above that. Not only that, but by showing that you still have confidence in yourself, you're showing your man that you are above self-pity and loathing. Go through an emotional affair recovery. Spend more time with your friends, treat yourself to a spa or manicure, and make yourself feel that you are an attractive woman, both inside and out.

Be firm on your stance

Are you trying to pretend that the affair never happened? Don't! By pretending that the affair never happened, you're giving the impression that infidelity in marriage has no consequences. It may be difficult, but you have to discuss what happened and how you will not tolerate such action. You should keep this brief, especially if there's a chance that you won't be able to keep your composure. By showing strong resolve, he'll more than think twice about committing that act again.

Flaunt yourself

Has fire between your relationship been dampened? You can fix that. Flirt with him, but don't fulfill his every whim. Realize that you have power in this relationship and you most definitely have appeal. Use that to your advantage. Not only do you boost your own self-esteem, you will become more desirable in his eyes. Being in a marriage doesn't mean the fire in your marriage should flicker; it can last as long as you put in effort.