Signs of Cheating Boyfriends - The Things You See and the Things You Missed

You know he's up to something (or to someone else). In fact, there's this constant voice screaming inside your head that he is, but unless you see the signs of cheating boyfriends being shown by your partner, you can never be so sure.

There's one basic thing you may want to know about these playboys. They're either amateur, or experts. Yes, you may think that categorizing them into two is quite funny. But for women who have already been under these men's rough paws, they didn't think it was something worth a midget chuckle. As a matter of fact, they think it's the most tragic thing they've ever experienced. But now that you're here yourself, you may be one of those who share the same sentiments-the same wayward feeling-and you want to figure it out before the worst comes and you find yourself broken in the end.

If you've been with a lot of men including cheaters, you're probably already familiar with the signs of cheating boyfriends that will be cited in this article.

Amateur cheaters are those who show the signs of cheating boyfriends overtly. Of course, they're not going to flaunt it under your nose but with a few observations, you know they've gone into your neighbor's friends, figuratively (or literally, if applied). These men will say different lies that don't match and recite a great-wall-of-china length of excuses just to avoid shopping with you, going out with you, making love to you or simply...being with you. You'll find him on the phone or in front of the internet most of the time and when you ask who they're talking with, he'll say its an "associate from the office" or "my tennis buddy Mike". Of course, this may be true-or is it? Why is he bending over the phone as though afraid someone is going to snatch it away? Why is he whispering if he's talking with "Mike"? And most importantly, why are the phone bills brought to his office and why has he volunteered to pay for it?

Now check his credit card receipts. Why did he pay for two "Serendipity" movie tickets when you never watched it with him. He can't possibly mean he watched it with "his buddy, Mike" now, can he? Unless, of course, "Mike" is a short version of "Michaela" or "Michelle".

So how about these expert cheaters? How do they move? Well, they move almost the same as the beginners actually, except for two things-they cover their trails superbly and they divert your attention from prying into his secret relationship (or relationships, which is a case for many of them). In fact, these men are so good at hiding their extra-love affairs that all you can hold against him is your own intuition. This man may not linger on the phone for so long if you're inside the house. He may not even get online that much. But then check his mobile and computer. Can you gain access? Nope, because he has the security and lock code activated. If you ask him to open his computer for you, he may not even say no, but instead of giving you his password, he opens it himself. If you pry and tell him you need the password, he'll look a bit offended and say "Are you thinking I'm cheating or something?". Now tell me, can you look at the eyes of the man you love and say yes? Knowing you don't have enough evidence and you may risk offending him more?

Yes ladies, the experts know so much about women's emotions and sentiments. They'd used it and turn it against her.

With the experts, expect to be lavished with fancy gifts, lovely flowers and frequent "I love you" cards. Unfortunately, they also know much about these female "diversions". For them, there is nothing much more important than to get your attention totally diverted from them so you'll stop observing them and getting hints from their strange behavior.