Could You Have Pushed Your Husband Into an Affair With a Married Woman?

Some injured wives are coming to that realization and ending up happier. Most of them are working things out and building a stronger relationship with their husband after the affair. Could you benefit from their experience?

First let me say this in no ways insinuates that you are at fault or in any way responsible for your husband's affair with a married woman. He should have talked to you about it before cheating outside the marriage. But there was and still is a responsibility to both partners to create an environment that promotes a happy marriage. This is where the problem lies for a lot of marriages being considered here.

Why some men end up having an affair with a married woman shows that men are not sexually driven creatures.

When cheating husbands were asked, "Why did you have an affair with a married woman?" The majority (almost half) of them agreed it was emotional dissatisfaction in the marriage that made them stray. It is our culture who says all men are sexually driven but they are also emotionally driven and want to be admired and receive praise by their wives.

This is what these wives of men who have an affair with a married woman are finding out once they learn to survive an affair. The wives are getting past the affair and being able to finally talk about the things like details of the affair, and exposing the real problems that existed in the marriage.

The wives who don't get past the affair are more apt to end up divorced and carrying emotional baggage with them to their next relationship.

A way to get over the affair like the wives of men who have an affair with married women is by getting help. Hopefully this article will encourage you to seek help so you can learn how to survive an affair with a married woman.

Once you are able to cope with your husband's affair with a married woman you might be able to save your marriage and make it even stronger. You will also be better able to make the determination that your husband isn't going to do what he needs to and go your separate ways. Whatever you end up doing you won't have to lug your emotional baggage around with you.

The answer is yes, "You could have pushed your husband into an affair with a married woman". You can also use the affair as a sign your relationship with your husband just needs repaired by getting help and surviving an affair first.