Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Dating Married Men Advice - Stop The Pain Now!



Maybe you've asked yourself, is dating married men a definite loss? Or you can somehow stop the pain and have a happy ending of having him in your arms forever and ever? Most women who date married men don't know that they are playing with fire in the beginning. But most importantly, how should you end it? Or now that you are stuck in this situation, what should you do?

You're looking for advice. You know we live in society that doesn't accept you dating married men, let alone your friends and family. And most people would smirk, judge, or look at you with their pity eyes the moment they know you are dating a married man. So maybe you're the only one who knows about the situation. And it's toxic because the pain is building inside you and is not getting less any day.

So the only way is to leave or to make him yours, can you? Well, a simple answer is no. You cannot simply change anyone's free will. You cannot suddenly tell your man to leave her now and marry you.I know that may be ideal. But of course, you could and you should control your own action and behaviour, that is to make him make a choice. And no, it's not because the society won't allow it, or because it is easy to do. But you have to do something if you want to get out of this mess. Am I right?

Now, the only way you can get closest to get him to make up his mind is to leave him. He is going to never make up his mind if you let him have his cake and eat it too. If he can have both of you, why would he ever leave his current life? After all, he needs to part with half his wealth. He needs to possibly fight for the right to children, or face the whole crazy awkward situation. And most importantly, he cannot guarantee his relationship with YOU will work either. So why would he leave?

Ok, so why should YOU leave? Well, It might be easier, you probably want to turn around and fall back to his arms right now. But if leaving him is not hard, then no one is going to be here dating married men. It is not easy to leave and that's exactly why you are in this situation. But the fact is, leaving him is practically saying to him that if he doesn't make up his mind then he would lose you. And if he really wants you, then he has to leave his wife. Otherwise, you are no longer settling for a Mr Married.



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