Sunday, April 17, 2011

How to Tell If a Guy Is Cheating



When you think your husband is cheating, it can be difficult to pay attention to anything else. Your mind is consumed with all those what-if thoughts and you feel so troubled and shaken inside. Part of you wants to find the truth, but another part is afraid of what you may find.

You know that living a lie isn't worth it in the long run though, so you're determined to figure out what is really going on here. So here are a few things to look out for to find out if your husband is cheating.

First, check his car. Specifically, check the passenger seat. Do you notice any strange women's hairs? Or do you notice any kind of perfume? These are big clues that he's cheating on you. Most men will cover the obvious things when hiding the evidence, but based on how many people drive around cars flooded with fast food wrappers, don't be surprised if he forgets to clean the evidence out of his car.

Second, if he says he's working late, but you get the feeling that he's not really working late, go ahead and trap him. It's no surprise that cheating husbands have used the excuse of working late to engage in some extracurricular activities. To find out what he's really up to, you need to catch him. Drop by his work unannounced, just to surprise him with dinner on a day that he works late. If his coworkers say he left at 5:00 or don't have a clue where he's at, then you know something else is going on.

Third, plan a trip out of town for yourself. You don't actually have to go anywhere yourself, just make him think that you are. This is where you set your trap. If he thinks you're going to be away, then there's a good chance he might use this as an opportunity to meet up with the other woman.

To trap him, all you need to do is hide a voice-activated audio recorder in the house. This will record any sound that he makes or any sound that anyone he brings home will make. This will also pick up on phone conversations too, which is an added bonus.

For good measure, also hide a recoding device in his car as well. In case he doesn't bring the other woman home, you can capture audio of their conversations as they drive around on their dates. This extra trick can catch a lot of husbands out there who think that they are being smart by not bringing the other woman home with them.

So, these are a few tips that you can use to catch a cheating husband. I know that it can be truly devastating to deal with infidelity in your marriage, but in the long run, you'll be much better off knowing the truth than to simply sit by idly and look the other way. So be brave and get to the bottom of what your husband is doing.



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