Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Know the Different Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend



If you suspect your boyfriend of committing infidelity, yet you're still not so sure about it, you better keep reading and learn about the different signs of a cheating boyfriend.

Cheaters are categorized into two types-beginners and experts. I know it seems funny but for many women who's been a victim of these two-timers, this is definitely not a laughing matter.

From the word itself, you may liken the beginners to an amateur playboy-easily caught and overt in their gestures of cheating. Although they will, in no way, flaunt their flirtations and infidelity in front of your nose, it is easy to detect them and follow their trails.

These men will generally show signs of unwillingness to participate in intimate discussions and will barely show signs of affection. You'll see them lingering on the phone for a long amount of time but when you ask them who it was, they'll say it was "some company selling things" or some unknown callers who had a wrong number. You'll also find out that he has created a new email address and often turns his computer on when he thought you've already fallen asleep. The security code is also activated on his phone and you find out he changed the password of his desktop as well. On top of these, you found out he made a number of purchase of gifts you never received and there have been deductions for travel expenses that he has never mentioned to you.

With an expert cheater, you may never follow his trail unless you hire some secret agent. The odds are, he may have opened an entirely untraceable financial account under a pseudo name to divert your personal investigations. Also, these are the men who don't overly show their disinterest in you-as a matter of fact, they'd exaggerate it. They shower you with gifts, flowers, and jewelry just to divert your attention from his casual flirting and deliberate two-timing. Chances are, you may not even notice it until you begin counting the days he's "working late", his "out-of-town business trips" or even the times he made love to you. If you're not observant enough, you may find yourself unaware of this treachery until he finally maneuvers you in a break up where he makes you think that you're the one who's to be blamed. And how will you counteract? When he has played the role of a dedicated boyfriend and a generous lover?

Nothing can be more devastating than witnessing the signs of a cheating boyfriend from your own point of view. Sometimes, you may not even believe it. Oftentimes, you refuse to believe it.



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