Relationship Evidence Of Cheating And Infidelity

Here are several changes you will notice occurring in your relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend or spouse that will indicate or suggest infidelity is probably going on. The more of these indicators occurring in your relationship the higher the probability that he or she is actually engaging in cheating.

• Changes in your sex life -- it is almost impossible for a cheater's sex life and sexual behavior to not be affected significantly by a secret hidden relationship. Invariably you are cheating partners sexual needs are being met by another individual. So it is highly likely you will notice a serious decline in your cheating partners sexual appetite toward you. Another tip off his sometimes there is a request of your cheating partner for new or experimental sex. In addition to that, expect any sexual activity you have with your cheating boyfriend or girlfriend to be accompanied by less cuddling, affection, and non-sexual touching.


• Time spent with your cheater -- in all likelihood since your cheating partner will be spending time with your secret lover it means they will be spending less time with you. An even bigger clue however is the quality of time spend together. Time spent with your cheating boyfriend or girlfriend will just somehow seem empty. Your cheating lover will seem to be off in their own world or daydreaming and of course he/she is spending a lot of time thinking about his other lover.


• More time away -- there will be tons of new reasons for your cheating lover to leave the house for the reason either of meeting with his secret lover or to talk with him or her on the cell phone. Your lover will go away for small trips more frequently such as to the store. A new found heightened interest in walking the dog will become apparent. And trips or time away for activities like working out, etc. will take much longer than usual. In addition to that expect your cheating spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend to leave for work earlier or come home later from work. The bottom line is more time away from home.


• Gift giving -- your boyfriend or girlfriend suddenly starts buying new gifts for no apparent reason such as holidays birthdays etc. The reason being to alleviate his own guilt and/or prevent you from becoming suspicious.


• A lack of interest in family -- you'll most likely notice your cheating partner has a declined interest in family related activities such as visiting with relatives. The main reason for this is his interest in you and anything related to you has declined since he has a separate secret life with his secret lover