Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Relationship Warning Signs, 3 Key Indications That All Is Not Well



Are you worried about your relationship since you would hate to be the last to find out that your partner is unhappy or even being unfaithful? You know that horrid feeling that everyone knows what is happening with your partner except you? Well what are some warning signs that your relationship is in trouble?

1. Mood change. Has your partner's feelings changed inexplicably? Are they really happy for no reason that you can tell? Joy is not a bad thing but if your partner suddenly moves to a new level of happiness and nothing in their life has changed (that you know of) then this is a relationship warning sign that something else is going on. Do they drift off into day dreaming often and does this day dreaming result in a smile or a ghost of a smile like they are reliving something? If their joy overflows to humming and singing then know that there is something fueling this new state of happiness. Pay attention to them and try to find out what's new at work, socially etc and if there is no reason for this joy then know that someone else maybe the fountain of this joy.

2. Attitude change. Has your partner's attitude toward you changed? Is there emotional distance between you that you just cannot seem to bridge? Are you no longer a priority in their life? Do they no longer seem to have any interest in you and the things that are important to you? Do they have little or no time for you? When you talk on the phone do you get the feeling that your partner just wants to get off the phone as soon as possible? Then this is a relationship warning sign that someone else maybe taking your position in your partner's life.

3. Behavior change. Has your partner's behavior changed? Have their actions changed so that they are more secretive or aloof? Do they seem to be covering something? If your partner acts like they are covering up something then the probability is that they are covering something. Do they put off their cell phone when they are with you or do they answer it in monosyllables or in great secrecy? Do they now take their cell phone even to the bathroom? Are they suddenly very busy at the office even though their job doesn't warrant it or there is no change in their salary to reflect this increase in hours? This is another relationship sign that someone else is taking up their time.

Obviously you do not want to be overly suspicious but you also don't want to live in ignorance. If you observe all these changes then you need to pay attention as there is clearly something wrong in your relationship.



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