Monday, April 18, 2011

Signs Of A Cheating Boyfriend - Miss Them At Your Peril



Many a relationship is marred by infidelity by one of the partners. Girls often complain about cheating boyfriends. If you are a victim of infidelity, you need to share a part of the blame. I am sorry about being blunt but I am being candid. I don't mean to say that you are responsible for your boyfriend's behavior. I only want to point out that you have failed to take note of the signs of a cheating boyfriend. You don't have to be a suspicious person to keep looking for these signs. Relationships are built on trust. So, you start with a basic assumption of trust and you should live with this trust till it is broken by the other person. But you can't be oblivious to signs that should be obvious even to one who is not a good observer of things going around them.

Lest you should become a suspicious person by getting perturbed by every sign, I am listing out a couple of signs that you may come across and also ways to verify whether these signs indicate infidelity.

Your boyfriend starts telling lies:

Since cheating is an act of dishonesty, lying will go with cheating easily. You may catch your boyfriend telling lies even about trivial things. When people tell lies, they tend to make them dramatic. Normal happenings in life are simple and don't have anything dramatic about them. For example, if your boyfriend misses a date and gives a simple reason like missing it due to forgetfulness or some work that has come up, it is fine. But people who spin lies are likely to build stories like their playing a good Samaritan to a friend in trouble, visiting a clinic for a serious ailment, meeting with an accident resulting in internal injuries etc. You can distinguish between a lie and a truth both by looking at the content of the story and by observing the tone of your boyfriend, which will betray signs of anxiety while telling a lie.

A pattern of events:

Since cheating by your boyfriend means his having an affair with another woman, he will have to be with her quite often. Therefore, he will have to give you some excuses repeatedly. You can easily discern a pattern in his attempts to avoid time commitments, missing the dates, forgetting events and a sense of urgency and restlessness. All these signs will be perfectly normal if they happen once but if they repeat themselves, you can read them as signs of a cheating boyfriend.



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