How to Find a One Night Stand - The Holy Grail of Extramarital Affairs

One night stands are the holy grail of extramarital affairs. They are the ultimate no strings attached sexual experience. A one night stand is great if not perfect way for cheating women or married men seeking affairs to get a little sex outside of his marriage without getting caught. For people seeking intimate encounters outside of their marriage, a one night stand offers the sex you are seeking with none of the risky phone calls, texts or other forms of obligatory communication that come with having a more conventional affair.

Most cheating husbands are interested in just the sexual component of an affair.

All that most cheating men are really looking for is the sex that they don't get from their wives at home. They are not interested in any emotional involvement or daily communication. These men will peruse the married personal ads online and in read the personals of the paper looking for cheating wives who want a no strings attached (nsa) discreet encounter. They will often go to their computers search engines and type in the name of dating sites from the TV hoping to find a married woman for affairs who wants to experience a one night stand.

Any of us who have tasted the forbidden fruit of passion outside of our relationship has had a moment of panic. A moment that we spend wondering if there was any incriminating evidence of our tryst. Did we erase our phone logs? Did we remove any text messages we might have received from our cell phones. Did we erase any emails that we received on our computers? Did we remember to throw out any receipts for dinner or a hotel? Then we realize that the problem is not just us. What about the person we cheated with? Did they remove, erase or throw away any incriminating evidence? And more importantly, if any evidence is found could any of the evidence lead back to you?

Having a one night stand is the answer. Being an attached person who requires discretion you need to do this the safe way! First take an afternoon to yourself and type "affair married" or "married personal ads" into your favorite search engine. You will want to do this particular type of site because this genre of dating sites have incorporated special features into their website that traditional dating websites have not. Cheaters websites are aware that your need for discretion and anonymity is paramount. You will have a wide choice of extramarital affair websites specializing in cheating encounters. A recent search on google using the search term affair married produced over 54,000 choices of cheaters websites.

Check a few out of these affair websites out and select one that has the features you will want.

Look for a site that first of all has totally anonymous and free profiles. The free feature allows you to check out other people's profiles before you commit to that site. You would do best to find and stay in just one website. It is safer than cruising on several websites at the same time, and minimizing your time online and your exposure gives you a much smaller chance of getting caught.

Select a site that has a lot of members. With approximately four million cheating women who have existing profiles on married dating sites you can easily find a site with millions of members. Using a website with a large membership also gives you a much better chance at finding someone you are attracted to in your area.

Next you want to make sure that the site you select has everything you will need on one site. You will want to do everything from looking at profiles, an initial greeting or email to online chatting in the same site. Make sure they offer you an email account on that site. You don't want to be receiving emails on outside accounts. You also want a site that keeps your pictures and extended profile private until you give someone permission to check access them. Next find a profile seeking either a one night stand or a no strings attached encounter. The profiles very rarely use real names. You can now make contact right through your anonymous profile.

Try to pick a potential partner that you are not only attracted to, but someone located nearby to contact. This means making arrangements to meet are usually short and sweet. Not a lot of planning is needed because you are close to each other, you are both there for the same thing and you both know the danger of too much texting, etc. You can both cut through all the traditional dating rituals of getting to know the other person and getting them interested in you sexually. Since you both have already established the bottom line of why you are meeting each other, who cares what their favorite color is or if they like long walks on the beach. Basically you just made an untraceable contact, neither of you have even used their real name.

Now be sure to pay cash for anything you do together. (No receipts to be found) Use the anonymous profile name to check into hotels. And make sure there is no further contact with each other that you can get caught at. By following these general rules you have made your one night stand as safe an extramarital affair as you can.

When you really look at it a one night stand may be the perfect crime!