My Wife Cheated, Now What? - 3 Secret Warnings That Will DESTROY Your Marriage in a Heart Beat

Are you questioning the state of your marriage because your wife cheated on you with another man?

Do you ANY idea how to even begin to deal with your wife and her unfaithfulness? Perhaps you question whether or not you'll really ever be able to trust her again.

If you love your wife dearly, but you're devastated by her affair and you have no idea how to proceed, then this is the article for you. As you continue reading I'm going to give you the 3 biggest warnings that, when followed, should lead you straight to a better marriage. Or at least get you on the road that way.

Warning #1 - Do NOT Expect to Forget About What Your Wife Did

Many men come to me and their first question is this: How do I forgive and forget my wife's affair?

You've seen this rule in The Bible, and you know that it's the highest standard of recovery and seemingly a good one to shoot for after you've been cheated on, but there's one thing you're forgetting:

Your wife's affair changed your life. And you're NEVER going to forget a life changing experience.

I can honestly say that I think the notion of forgetting her affair is absolutely silly, but still some men insist on going for it.

Here's the thing: You would be much better served by your time if you seek out a different route for recovery...Maybe something a little more possible?

Warning #2 - Do NOT Hold Out On Your Wife

What do I mean by that?

Basically, many men and women feel that they're entitled to a certain degree of REVENGE when they're spouse has cheated; this goes for both men AND women. However, if you want a loving marriage, you can not seek revenge.

Listen, if your wife has recently slept with another man, then I can promise you two things:

She's much more likely to cheat now then she ever will be again

- AND -

Right now she feels sexier and more attractive than she has in a LOOONG time.

So what do these two things mean for you?

Well, it means that there's no doubt that your wife has a heightened libido right now...Meaning she's at risk for another affair. So, if you deliberately hold out on her, then she's VERY likely to be unfaithful again.

Warning #3 - Do NOT Make Up Her Mind For Her

One thing that most men forget when they're dealing with a woman's fickle infidelity is that women have a very clear set of emotions and emotional reactions.

In other words, there was a reason that your wife cheated on you, and right now it probably seems like YOUR job to find out what caused her to cheat.

However, this isn't the case. It's 100% your wife's responsibility to identify the cause of her infidelity. Not only that, but she may be tempted to just skip that part of the affair recovery.

DO NOT LET HER DO THAT! She MUST find out why she cheated, no matter how long it takes. Otherwise you will never get your marriage back, plain and simple.