Why Men Cheat - The Real Reason Why Men Cheat And It's Not What You Think

Do you ever wonder how a married man who has a beautiful wife could cheat on her with a less attractive woman? Do you wonder why a startling 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some point in their relationship? How about the fact that 52% of all marriages end in divorce? Something is going on and so I think it's about time we had a serious talk about...

Why Men Cheat

And it's not because,

1. They are jerks

2. They don't love you

3. They don't think you're sexy

In fact, a man can love his woman, find her sexy and desirable, yet still cheat! So what's going on with these men who cheat? They can't ALL be bad right? Of course not. There's more to it and it may not be so obvious to some people. In fact, what I'm about to tell you might make some of you shake your heads in disapproval. So let me just tell you...

The Real Reason Why Men Cheat Is:

Monogamy is unnatural for men.

There, I said it and I know some people might disagree with me on this, especially if they are happily married and their man has never cheated on them. And that's wonderful if a woman has found a man who is committed to staying loyal, faithful and true, only to her.

But despite their commitment, men cheat because they naturally enjoy sexual variety. They are just built that way. So a woman who rushes a man into monogamy is treading on dangerous territory. Men should be given the freedom to choose, just as women should, whether or not they want to be with one or multiple partners. Every person should live in a way that allows them to be open and honest about their needs and desires, without any fear or guilt.

Fear is one of the main reasons why many men don't cheat. They are afraid of losing their partner so they might resort instead, to looking at porn in private or going to strip clubs. A woman wise enough to understand that lusting for multiple women, is in a man's natural makeup, as it is in most mammalian species, will never use shame or guilt to try to extinguish his desires.

Actually, I've found that like stealing candy from a baby, tying a man down will make his desire for freedom stronger, which will inevitably drive him into the arms of another.